tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6294253081396874572.post7413826946405476585..comments2023-05-13T07:23:12.833-07:00Comments on Th'Muse: Choose to SeeMGSKellerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17805362558209800925noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6294253081396874572.post-76773096631045960972010-11-02T09:11:15.145-07:002010-11-02T09:11:15.145-07:00You may see the bad, but living there isn't ne...You may see the bad, but living there isn't necessary. It is the 'should' principle in essence. "I really SHOULD fix that bannester" doesn't get it fixed. "I'm going to get some nails when I go to the store on Tuesday and fix that next Wednesday" does. It also releases you from 'worrying' about it, sort of like a computer, it frees up your RAM or daily 'to do' list when something is scheduled. <br /><br />When you see something in someone that is 'bad', take note, noticing isn't condeming. Then LOOK for something good. Notice something that makes you smile about them and the 'bad' thing falls into perspective.MGSKellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17805362558209800925noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6294253081396874572.post-34086315857481601322010-10-17T21:15:08.364-07:002010-10-17T21:15:08.364-07:00Love the speck analogy. Very cool. Goes with gra...Love the speck analogy. Very cool. Goes with gratitude too... we *choose* to be grateful and what to be grateful for. Instead of seeing all the bad. Working on that. Broken banister? Broken drawer? Hum... where'd you get those ones? ;)<br /><br />So... HOW do we do that? Make ourselves see what we WANT to see? Instead of what we see on our own?Crystal Deverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16382679233580012888noreply@blogger.com