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Don't Push the River

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A river flows.   That is what it does.   It follows its own natural path and ends where all rivers ought to end, in the sea.   If I jump in, and push it, it will still do what it will.   I may be able to change stones, build a dam, even dump in tons of soil to adjust where I think it OUGHT To go, but like so many have found out, eventually water will win. It will go the way of the flow.    Is your garden continually climbing over the fence and into the neighbor’s yard?   Does your car continue to sputter and whine when you put in the cheaper grade of gas? In life we tend to forget that our lives are like that too.   This isn’t to say do not make goals, or do not try to guide your own life, but simply consider when things feel like a struggle, that perhaps they aren’t ready to happen.   Are you pushing your flow too much to see that the natural movement will be exactly in the direction that is best?    Stop and listen to the...

What’s the Problem . . . Really?

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What’s the Problem . . . Really? The trick is not to try and solve a problem before you know what it is.   Spark – Circ de Soleil - John U. Bacon, Lyn Heward  Several years ago my family volunteered to help out in the community.   Our task was the get rid of some of the graffiti in the area and make our neighborhood look better.   As we sanded and painted and worked at getting the stuff off, it took us nearly the entire day.   At the end, the words just came through our efforts again like we had done nothing.   I didn’t understand it.   WE were doing our best!   We had even purchased extra grade quality of tools to make sure it was a good job.   It didn’t work.   Then the supervisor came by to check up on us.   “Do you realize that this wall is going to be demolished?”    “Uh, no.”  “They are going to put a gate here.”    He then directed us to another area where the paint went on smoothly and the who...