What Is Missing - Really?

~”Oz never did give nothing to the Tin Man. . . that he didn’t, didn’t already have!” ~ America – Tin Man

Usually we have most of what we need. The missing part is usually the catalyst. A good coach who can point it out for you and put the pieces in the right place is the coach who can invite you to recognized the best YOU.

“Listen to where it hurts.. the body and the spirit speak softly first, then more loudly the more they are ignored.” ~ Carol Montoya



I’ve been doing a lot of EFT lately. Emotionally Focused Therapy. It is a system of acupressure releases that takes stuck and stored up energies and helps the person release that energy through gentle taps and questions and statements. It is simply astonishing how easily old hurts, physical pain and even stress can disapate with the simply applied principles. This isn’t something that you need an appointment for, or a long list of supplies or even a long training session. It is a wonderful tool that can be learned quickly and give years of diverse relief and abounding peace.

Usually we do have much of what we need. Sometimes all it takes is someone else to point that out.

Comments

  1. UnknownMarch 9, 2011 at 6:45 AM

    Do you do this alone or with someone? How did you learn to do it? Would like more info. Thanks!

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  2. MGSKellerMarch 9, 2011 at 9:16 PM

    You can do it alone, or with someone Beverly. It is a fabulous tool. I am currently certified in NLP - Neurolinguistic Programing - and that is where I was introduced. It takes only one half hour session to learn.

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  3. CarolynMarch 12, 2011 at 5:32 AM

    Hello...Poppin through and saying hello...found you through Beverly @ the Buzz.
    Will be back through soon...

    blessings
    Carolyn at
    The Backyard Beauty and Book Boutique
    http://thebackyardbeautyandbookboutique.blogspot.com/

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  4. MGSKellerMarch 15, 2011 at 7:10 PM

    Enjoy and come back often.

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